For many of us, playing guitar or creating music feels like a solo journey. It’s just you, your instrument, and the walls around you.
While that solitude can be a safe space to explore and create, it’s not where true growth happens.
Here’s the truth: explosive growth comes when music becomes a communal experience.
I know this because I’ve lived it.
Back in my early 20s, I was playing in a hardcore band and thought I was hot shit—until I hit a serious plateau. No matter how much I practiced, I couldn’t seem to break through.
There was this crew of older musicians who were everything I wanted to be: insanely talented, successful, and intimidating as hell. They felt totally out of reach, but I managed to weasel my way into their circle.
At first, I felt like an outsider, but I kept showing up, and eventually, they let me jam with them. And let me tell you, that experience flipped my world upside down.
Their feedback and skills raised the bar for me in ways I couldn’t have imagined.
Sure, it wasn’t folk music, but the lesson stuck: when you surround yourself with players of varying experience levels and share your music, growth becomes inevitable.
Why Sharing Matters
Feedback fuels progress. When you share, you open the door to insights you can’t get in isolation. It’s not just about criticism; it’s about discovering new perspectives on your playing.
Connection builds confidence. Putting yourself out there helps you feel seen and heard. It’s a confidence booster that carries over into every aspect of your playing.
Music is meant to be shared. At its core, music is a communal art. When you let others in, you’re honoring its purpose.
Taking that first step can feel intimidating—believe me, I’ve been there—but it’s a game-changer. Post that video. Play for a friend. Join a jam session. Growth doesn’t just come from playing better—it comes from connecting with others through music.
Take the Next Step
If you’re ready to make your music a communal experience but don’t know where to start, I’ve got you covered.
My fan-favorite mini-course, Unlocking Chord Inversions, is more than just a lesson in nailing that nostalgic folk sound. It’s also your gateway to the Basement Dwellers Club, a private Facebook community where you can share videos of your playing, interact with like-minded folk artists, and get feedback from me and your peers.
For a limited time, this mini-course is just $7 (usually $49). That’s less than the cost of a fancy coffee to level up your playing and join a community that will support your growth.
Don’t let your music stay in isolation. Let’s make it a communal experience and watch your skills explode.
